A Bumble user is currently in a bad situation after a girl caught him swiping other girls during their first date. Even if you are a guy, if you saw the woman you are currently dating uses dating apps to find other men, it will definitely be hurt or annoyed by the situation.
The Bumble user’s date saw him looking for other girls on the application through the reflection of his glasses. She recorded the incident and posted it on TikTok to further humiliate the guy, who has no idea that he was caught half-cheating.
Instead of paying attention to his companion, the 23-year-old man decided to fiddle with his phone during their date, which is a big NO during the first meetup with a girl or a guy. There is no confirmation if the guy also had an interaction with the girl through Bumble.
Studying the phone’s reflection in the man’s glasses, the woman realized he was checking out prospects on the dating application Bumble. The woman decided to post the video online to show the reflection in the man’s glasses and a close-up of the reflection.
The TikTok video generated more than 460,000 views. The popular social media app’s users shared their opinions about the guy’s action. Some of the commentators said that what the guy did is very wrong, even right from the start when he is just fiddling with his phone instead of paying attention to his companion.
Other users added that even if he is not using Bumble, what the guy did was very disrespectful, especially on his first date with a woman.’
How to know if your partner is using a dating app
One of the first signs that your partner is using a dating app is when you also met him on a dating site or application. Remember, a good partner doesn’t usually come from online social media platforms, they usually arrive unexpectedly as your coworker, a new friend, and more.
If your partner always gets notifications on his or her device, then there’s a high chance that he is still using a dating app. You can conduct an investigation even if his smartphone has a password and is always locked.
You can turn on the screen of his mobile device to see if the notifications or messages come from a dating app. Another behavior you should check is when he doesn’t answer or check the messages he receives when you are both chilling.
This could mean that the guy is ignoring the messages on his device so that you won’t have a chance to have a glimpse. On the other hand, having no relationship status could also mean that he is still using a dating app.
If he doesn’t change his relationship status on social media ever since both of you had a label, then you better ask him the reason why. If he stutters, then that is something shady.
If you really trust your partner, then it will hard for you to check his or her phone without any permission. However, if your guts tell you that there is something wrong, then there’s nothing wrong with checking his devices.